Sex is not just about getting orgasm
Sex Is Not Only Aiming To Get Orgasm
If we observe the rhetoric of Westerners in making love, we often see them doing inhumane ways of treating couples to get orgasms. For example, those who like Hardcore or BDSM (Sex by means of slavery). This is very far from appropriate if we call it a romance. They put aside humanity only to get an orgasm while one of them felt suffering and even tortured. But let it be, sex can always be done and passed beautifully even though sometimes one of them feels tormented because it is a fantasy for each pair. It is inversely proportional if we look at the rhetoric of Asians in making love and how they get orgasms, for example Japan. We can certainly feel them doing it lovingly and treating their partners well. That is why orgasm is not the peak in love.
But after all, making love is a thing full of rhetoric and art. What our partner thinks is interesting to try will surely bring pleasure to us too, moreover we do it for the people we love, of course all the desires that come from him, we will definitely try to do it, whether in any style or whatever it is. The important thing is that we do it lovingly and treat our partners well. Don't just prioritize your ego to gain satisfaction (Orgasm) without giving Orgamse to your partner. But once orgasm is not the peak in lovemaking because good treatment and affection for couples is the most important thing from the orgasm itself. Hopefully you can find rhetoric in making love full of beauty with orgasm to be one of the ways we admire couples.